Flirting Men

There’s always do’s and don’ts in everything. Same goes to flirting. Yes… F.L.I.R.T… Everyone can flirt nowadays, not considering age, gender, or morality. However, the main focus of today’s topic is flirting men.

Men flirts the most. A student, a boyfriend, a husband, they do flirt the most. Some men don’t know how to tackle girls’ attention, but some…have girls around without having to do anything. Can we call it as…. “FATE”? Or “LUCK”?

Hmm… I don’t think so!

From what we’ve heard, girls are always after the rich tall dark handsome (and so on) guys, but why do they end up with the opposite? That’s simply because girls can’t refuse a sweet talker. A sweet talker doesn’t have to have good looks or money, they just talk and talk and girls would fall for them.

What about the non-sweet talker that don’t have money and good looks? I felt sorry for them. They can get a girlfriend, but absolutely cannot become a flirting material. Why? Because they drive girls off with their words. It doesn’t matter whether it’s the words they said or the words texted or IM’ed. But we girls just hate boys that want to flirt, but are using the wrong words.

These are a few of my experiences. This boy, he’s quite good looking, have good money and heart. He’s just perfect ‘cause he treated me so well. The one thing I cannot stand him is when he texted me, he would put “ok” at the end of his sentences.

“Let’s go out.ok”

“I’m not feeling well,ok”

…and so on. I mean, what did he mean? It’s like he wanted to end the texting exchange quickly, or…is it that he’s mad at me? I always felt that way, reading his texts. So I rejected him, even though he’s not like that when talking to me.

This other guy, he always try to make me upset. Maybe he thought I’d like it? Sigh… He always has something to say about my appearance. My hair… my outfits… my shoes… I just hated it, damned much! We ended up fighting everytime we met.

The next stories is about internet flirting(IM, mIrc). This guy like to ask me questions, and then he’d put a lot of question mark after that. I mean a lot….

“Have you eaten?????????”

“Hey, what’s up????????”

I just hate it damn much. Maybe it’s just me, but I always thought that I am being scolded. Then there was this other guy, which I just hate to chat with. His word mistake is:

“Watpe jer tu?”

“Awak katne jer ni?”

What’s with his “jer”? it’s like I’m not important, as in “jer….”. I asked him once. He said, “dunno, just a habit”. Then I said sorry goodbye lah. I cannot take his habit.

Maybe it’s just me, or maybe not. But guys… please choose the right words when you’re flirting, or you’ll end up looking and sounding stupid.